Monthly Archives: March 2011

A spiritual lesson I learned from my 6 year old son

My son will soon be seven. Earlier this week we were discussing his upcoming birthday and I mentioned that many people believe that the age of seven is when a child becomes fully human and fully forgets the last remaining memory of his or her connection to Spirit, Source, God or whatever term describes for you our divine essence.  William looked at me and said, “Mom, I will always be connected to Spirit.” Then he casually changed the subject as if he had said nothing profound.

I have been thinking a lot about that simple sentence over the past few days. It has made me realize that even in our darkest, most human moments, when we are caught up in the drama of our lives, we are always connected to Spirit and never alone. It is appropriate that today we are interviewing Lori Aletha, who works with clients and their spiritual guides to remind them of what they knew long, long ago – their purpose for this lifetime.

We all come into this life knowing who we are. We know that we are aspects of Divine Love and that our life has meaning. There are many documented examples of children talking to their parents and/or siblings about what they remember from before they incarnated. This information is nothing new. William becomes seven in May and already he is often preoccupied with very human feelings of separation from his fellow human beings – specifically his younger brother Oliver with whom he fights almost constantly. James and I despair that they will ever get along! Then, in a moment of intimacy between just William and I he says something like, “Mom, I will always be connected to Spirit” and reminds me that there is a lot more going on than what just meets the eye.

There is no way I can know all that is going on between William and his brother. They have their own spiritual relationship that has nothing to do with me. As a mother, I can only do my best to show them love and keep them from killing one another (after all, they are boys and very physical!). As a seeker of Truth, my role is to widen my perspective and realize that they are not mine. They belong to God, the Universe, or however you feel comfortable defining the infinite source of love from which we all originate. And, as such, they are and forever will be connected to Spirit.

The same, of course, is true for me and true for you. We are all connected to the all-pervading hum of energy that shows up as the constant movement of our molecules. We are energy and, as brain scientist Jill Bolte Taylor described when she had her stroke, our molecules blend in with everything around us. William’s profound statement was a different kind of confirmation that where I begin and where you begin cannot be separated. Where we both end and where God begins are equally connected. In fact, they are one and the same. “Mom, I will always be connected to Spirit.” Let that be a reminder to us all that we are an aspect of the Source that created us. And we are never alone.

Listen to our interview with “Discover the Gift” star Shajen Joy Aziz

Podcast is ready for this week’s “The Way of the Toddler Hour.” This week Theresa Henson gave us a beautiful spiritual lesson from St. Gertrude’s Monastary in Cottonwood, ID on the power of grace. Then we featured Teresa Springer-Grounds as this week’s Truly Amazing Woman. The show’s interview this week was with Shajen Joy Aziz, Executive Producer and Director of Operations at Equilibrium Entertainment. Her new film “Discover the Gift” comes out on June 14, 2011. It is the moving story of reconciliation between Shajen and her brother, award-winning film maker Demian Lichtenstein. Intermixed with their narrative are countless interviews with best-selling authors, educators and spiritual teachers including His Holiness the Dalia Lama, His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, Jack Cranfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Marianne Williamson and many others. The film is a journey in healing and transformation, leading the audience closer to the innate gifts inside each of us that culminate in living the lives we want. For a full listing of everyone interviewed in this film visit www.discoverthegift.com.

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Groundbreaking interview about new movie “Discover the Gift”

I want to tell you about the woman I am interviewing on Tuesday, March 22nd on “The Way of the Toddler Hour.” Shajen Joy Aziz has a master’s degree in education from Norwich University and is completing her PhD in human development and organizational systems. Her passion is improving the lives of children through the education of parents, adults, educators, and communities. In pursuit of this she has used her twenty years of experience in various aspects of education to help create her family company, Equilibrium Entertainment. As Executive Producer and director of operations for Equilibrium Entertainment, Shajen strongly believes in using all forms of media to advance our highest ideals and create a sanctuary for the creative mind. Shajen lives with her family in Los Angeles.

Her new film “Discover the Gift” comes out in Summer 2011. There is also an accompanying book of the same name. Shajen made this film with her brother, award-winning film maker Demian Lichtenstein. He is best known within the music industry as a highly acclaimed music video director. Sting, Eric Clapton, Cypress Hill and Gloria Estefan are just a few of the big names for which he has directed music videos. He also directed and produced the 2001 feature length film “3,000 Miles to Graceland” starring Kevin Costner, Kurt Russell, Courtney Cox and Christian Slater.

“Discover the Gift” is a feature length documentary film about how Shajen and her brother went from being completely estranged from one another to living and working together. It is a story of transformation and healing. In the film, they interview such noted educators and spiritual teachers as: His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Michael Bernard Beckwith, His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, Jack Cranfield, Terri Tillman, David Wolfe, Mark Victor Hansen, Janet Bray Attwood, Dr. Sonia Powers, Dr. Sue Morter, Marianne Williamson, Dr. Joe Vitale and many others. For a complete list of those interviewed for this ground breaking film, visit www.discoverthegift.com.

The story of reconcilliation between Shajen and her brother is compelling enough for a film in itself. However, they take it one step further by using their personal narrative for a springboard to what is possible within each and every one of us. They use the term “the gift” to describe that inner place of living one’s life according to one’s passions and innermost talents. Through the many speakers, they offer insights into how each one of us can tap into that place of bliss. It is the kind of movie that changes you from the inside out. I, for one, certainly left the screening a different person than the one who sat down to watch it.

In the interview next Tuesday, I will be asking a few of the following questions to Shajen. Through our conversation, I hope listeners will leave with an overwhelming feeling of optimism that more is possible than they may currently believe and that Shajen is an example of that. I would also like to instill the concept of the gift and present a doorway for listeners to pursue its discovery within the context of their lives. It is especially important that this point be made to mothers who may feel they have to put their own lives on hold while they raise their children. What I want to show is that fulfillment and motherhood can be exercised in tandem.

 - What has been the biggest change since making the film and starting your Equilibrium Entertainment company?
 - Now that you are reconciled with your brother, how do both of you look back at that time of estrangement and living such completely unconnected lives?
 - Your life has clearly been transformed and lifted to a higher level of fulfillment since renewing your relationship with your sibling. Spiritually, mentally and physically (in that you moved across the country), your life is a different experience now. How has all this change effected your daughter and, more importantly, the relationship you share with her?
 - As you have moved from struggling human to fulfilled woman, what are the key elements to living the creative life that is so reflective of discovering “the gift” within each individual?
 - How do you deal with the challenges and chaos of your schedule, given everything that you are doing (mom, business owner, student, etc), that could be helpful advice to the listeners who are dealing with their own version of chaos?
 - How is the way you deal with things different than before?

I hope you will join us on Tuesday, March 22nd at 2pm pst/5pm est/10pm gmt for this once in a lifetime interview. Podcasts can be downloaded from this website by going to the Radio Show Archive page.

Podcast ready for The Way of the Toddler Hour

This week we explored the world of our dreams with dream expert and author Darlene Montgomery. She is also the editor of the Conscious Women, Conscious Lives book series and a former story editor of Chicken Soup for the Soul Canada. In total she has read well over 6,000 stories and has compiled many healing essays in her Conscious Women series. On this show, we also had Cara Nitz giving a review of Smartipants cloth diapers, which was really interesting. Our Truly Amazing Woman was a surprise to co-host Lori Hamilton, as Leta did a special tribute to her sister. Lori also gave a description of the Brain Integration Technique, which is the healing modality she practices. All in all, this was a great show. We hope you enjoy.

LINK AVAILABLE ON THE RADIO SHOW ARCHIVE PAGE. YOU WILL FIND THE TAB ABOVE.

Conscious Women Concious Lives: The theme for next show.

Darlene Montgomery is an internationally respected authority on dreams, spiritual perspectives and ideas. She is an author, speaker and clergywoman who speaks to groups and organizations on uplifting subjects. Darlene is the creator of the book series, Conscious Women Conscious Lives: Powerful and Transformation Stories of Healing Body, Mind and Soul, with the most recent book in series being Conscious Women Conscious Relationships: True Stories of Wisdom and Awareness on the Path of Relationships. Each book in the series of five contains true stories of women’s experiences facing some of life’s greatest challenges. To learn more about Darlene her books visit www.lifedreams.org

Please support this week’s Truly Amazing Woman, Osprey Orielle Lake

Osprey Orielle Lake, MA is a lifelong advocate of environmental justice and societal transformation. She is the Director of the Women’s Earth and Climate Caucus, on the governing Board of Praxis Peace Institute and an advisor to the International Eco-Cities Standards initiative. Osprey has traveled to five continents studying ancient and modern cultures while making presentations at international conferences and universities. She is the Founder/Artist of the International Cheemah Monument Project, creating 18 foot bronze sculpture monuments for locations around the world, where people can ponder a better future for the earth and humanity. Osprey’s unique perspectives as a renowned international sculptor and public speaker on environmental issues have been featured on both national and European television and radio. Her book, Uprisings for the Earth: Reconnecting Culture with Nature, has just been released by White Cloud Press 
 
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(The Truly Amazing Woman segment of “The Way of the Toddler Hour” is inspired by Hope Katz Gibbs and her upcoming book 100 Truly Amazing Women. For more information on Katz Gibbs’ ongoing project to collect profiles of Truly Amazing Women, please visit www.trulyamazingwomen.com)

6 questions to help you deal with the change of being a full time mom to going back to a workplace:-

1. Ask yourself, “What is my biggest strength as a mom and how can I be more of a mom in this regard after I go back to work?”
2. In terms of finances, what are you willing to let go of so that you can find that balance between working and being the mom you want to be?
3. Where do you make unhelpful comparisons between your life and those of your peers? How can you put what you want into greater focus?
4. Have you written a Mission Statement for Motherhood, displaying it publically to remind you daily of what you hold most precious about being a mother and clearly defining who you are as a mom? Then, when your job crosses a line, you are more likely to recognize it and have the courage to abide by the boundaries established in your Mission Statement for Motherhood.
5. Do you focus on your kids completely when you are with them? How can you change habits to give 100% to your job during office hours and 100% to your kids during Mommy hours?
6. What is the one thing you gain most by working? And what is the one thing you gain most by being a mom? Having a “word” for each will definitely help you know when things are out of whack in work or parenting. If a bit of “me” time is required, you have the basis for doing something positive for yourself.

Continue reading on Examiner.com: Back to Work Moms Q&A: Advice from parenting radio show host Leta Hamilton – National Early Childhood Parenting | Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/early-childhood-parenting-in-national/back-to-work-moms-q-a-advice-from-parenting-radio-show-host-leta-hamilton#ixzz1FZ7SJwAi

Advice from a back to work mom…

Here is a link to an interview with The Examiner (www.examiner.com) about going back to work after motherhood. This is a story about my experience of going back to work full-time, then becoming a stay-at-home mom and finally owning and operating my own business out of the home on my own terms. Having your office in the house creates its own set of complications, but the rewards outweigh the challenges. Going back to an office and working for someone else no longer feels like an option. Like I say in my book, “I’d rather have my fingernails ripped out.”

http://www.examiner.com/early-childhood-parenting-in-national/back-to-work-moms-q-a-advice-from-parenting-radio-show-host-leta-hamilton

Are you taking steps toward a dream or goal?

This is a photo of my dear friend Theresa Henson. She is “The Way of the Toddler Hour’s” resident spiritual lesson giver. Working at St. Gertrude’s Monastary, a Benedictine monastary for nuns, in Cottonwood, ID, provides her with many opportunities to ponder our relationship with the Divine and the meaning of life. In addition to the communications work she oversees for St. Gertrude’s, Theresa also just finished her first novel called “Shift.” She is an example of someone who had a dream and took steps to achieve it.

Do you have a dream or a goal? What are you doing today to step closer to achieving it? I have a “one thing a day” rule. Being responsible for 3 little boys, a house and a business means that my plate is VERY full. Instead of beating myself up for not doing everything I should be doing to arrive at my big picture goals, I focus on doing one thing every day that is taking me one step closer. As long as I can lay my head on my pillow every night knowing I have done something in a forward movement direction, I can sleep knowing I have done my best.

My “one thing a day” rule has saved my soul many times, as it creates the emotional space for patience and perseverence. While I may not become my greatest vision of myself overnight, I realize with great clarity that this is not really the point. No, it’s not the point at all. Life is in continuous movement. Change is the only constant, right? So, by living the “one thing a day” rule, I make conscious choices about what direction I go in the inevitable flow that is my life.

This question of “What steps are you taking toward achieving a dream or goal?” is our Prize Draw question of the week. I have received fewere entries for this Prize Draw than for others and I am wondering why. Is that we don’t have dreams or goals or that we aren’t taking steps toward them?

What do you think?